My family has called me MissEhrin since I was a little girl, then when I was teaching my daughter her Ms’ and Mr’s I just started having everyone call me MissEhrin that way it was consistent. I do not believe that children should address adults by their first name it’s just how I was raised.

That’s my Princess Harmony, she is my one and only and I am working to build her a Queendom in the land of Beauty. She wants to be a people/animal hairstylist  and also a people/animal doctor when she grows up.

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Welp! I’m now 30+ and I’ll be damned if life isn’t a shit ton different than what I thought it would be. Prince Charming sure as hell never showed up and I have found that not ALL but a VAST MAJORITY of men are just useless and it’s become normal. Can’t grill, can’t change oil, can’t change a tire, what about…nope don’t do that either. Like WTF? All the while I’m supposed to be sitting up in your face just appreciating your presence? No thanks! I gave up on dating and instead taught myself to sew, cleaned up my credit, started making soap, reconnected with my love for photography, started writing again, figured out how to design a website (then did it 3 more times) and also monetized my social media. I took a genuine interest in my home, my career and MYself. All of a sudden (4 1/2 years later) I wasn’t lonely anymore. It turns out I had become an amazingly interesting person and I really enjoyed my own company to the point of being selfish with it. I talk to so many women young and old white, black, yellow and orange in these crazy ass situatuionships with men. Women feeling like garbage in real life but looking like real love on the IG. I can’t, I want to be happy in real life and if all you know is what you see on the gram then  you don’t know me.

I took a look at myself and realized how much I had been given. Yes my life has been hard but who’s hasn’t? I don’t want everything I have gone through to be in vain. My life now I live on purpose, truly living it not just existing while it happens to me. I have been through a lot and thank the LAWD Baby Jesus that I don’t look like my past. Someone once said I look like I have it all together. In my head I wondered what the hell was happening in their life that they would see that in me? But we are all looking to someone, right? I do not by any means have it all together. I have been blessed/cursed to always appear to be ok.

I’m really excited I have a few posts up but more are coming. Those posts are just to get my feelers going. I plan on putting my how to’s here so you can see me struggling at home just like you!

I am a woman, friend, mother, business owner and beautician but most of all I am magical and that’s not my fault, don’t act like I’m not and don’t expect me to shrink down and pretend either. What a blessing to have been born a woman, and even more a black woman! I do not look like my life so enjoy the pictures and the videos but please subscribe and read the content, it’s here to help.